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Today we’d like to introduce you to Rocco Pink.

Hi Rocco, it’s an honor to have you on the platform. Thanks for taking the time to share your story with us – to start maybe you can share some of your backstory with our readers?
My story begins in a very small, rural, ultra-conservative community where being different wasn’t just misunderstood—it was often rejected. Growing up as a gay man in that environment, I learned very early on how to hide parts of myself to survive. My sexuality wasn’t something that was openly accepted, especially within my family, and that created a deep internal conflict that followed me for years. I spent a long time feeling like I was living two lives—one that the world could see, and one that I kept buried.

That disconnect led me down a difficult path. I struggled with addiction for much of my life and found myself in and out of treatment centers throughout my adult years. It was a cycle that felt never-ending—until I made the decision to check into the Betty Ford Center. That experience truly changed everything for me. It wasn’t just about getting sober—it was about finally facing myself with honesty. Today, I’m proud to say I’m sober, and I feel more at home in my body and my identity than ever before.

A huge turning point in my healing came through meditation, which was introduced to me by my voice and breath coach, David Sorin Collyer, in New York City. That practice became the foundation for my transformation. It taught me how to slow down, how to listen, and how to reconnect with myself in a way I never had before. What began as a personal tool for survival has now become a central part of my work. I’ve developed mindfulness-based programs like RestSMART with People’s, and I’ve had the opportunity to speak on mindfulness at places like The Excel Center. I also teach private meditation sessions and lead classes at the YMCA downtown, alongside my work as a certified personal trainer—helping people connect not just mentally, but physically, to their well-being.

As I healed, my creativity reawakened. Music came back into my life after many years, and my first full-length studio album, ROCCO PINK: BLONDED, was born out of that rediscovery—it was about freedom, sensuality, and finding my voice. Now, my forthcoming album, I AM: ROCCO PINK, represents a deeper evolution. It’s no longer about searching—it’s about owning who I am fully and unapologetically.

Writing has also become a powerful extension of my journey. My first fiction novel, Under His Control, explores themes of power, identity, and desire, while my column Embrace The Pink Glow in Viva Glam Magazine grew into a book of the same name—both centered around authenticity, self-expression, and living boldly. My work is available everywhere books are sold, including our local gem, Left Bank Books, which makes it especially meaningful to share my voice within my own community.

Most recently, my visual art series, GLARE: Shades of Fame, has become a culmination of everything I’ve experienced. Through pop iconography, I explore the tension between image and identity—what it means to be seen versus truly known. It reflects not only the culture we live in, but also my own journey of stepping out of the shadows and into full visibility.

When I look at where I am today, everything I do—meditation, music, writing, fitness, and art—is rooted in the same purpose: healing, authenticity, and helping others feel less alone in their own journey. For so long, I didn’t feel fully accepted by the world around me. Now, I’ve learned how to fully accept myself—and that’s where everything truly began.

Alright, so let’s dig a little deeper into the story – has it been an easy path overall and if not, what were the challenges you’ve had to overcome?
It definitely hasn’t been a smooth road. In many ways, it’s been a series of difficult chapters that I had to grow through, not around.

Growing up in a small, ultra-conservative rural community, I didn’t feel like there was space for me to exist fully as myself. Being gay in that environment came with a lot of fear, shame, and isolation. I learned how to suppress who I was at a very young age, and that kind of disconnection from yourself doesn’t just go away—it follows you. Not feeling fully accepted by my family only deepened that internal struggle, and for a long time, I carried the belief that I had to earn love or hide parts of myself to receive it.

That internal conflict played a major role in my struggles with addiction. I spent years in and out of treatment, trying to find stability but not yet ready to fully face what was underneath it all. Addiction, for me, wasn’t just about substances—it was about escape. It was about not wanting to sit with the pain, the confusion, and the identity I hadn’t fully embraced.

Everything began to shift when I made the decision to check into the Betty Ford Center. That experience forced me to confront myself in a way I never had before. It wasn’t easy—it was uncomfortable, raw, and deeply emotional—but it was necessary. That’s where I began to understand that healing wasn’t about becoming someone new, but about returning to who I truly was underneath everything.

Even after getting sober, the work didn’t stop. Learning how to live authentically, to feel everything without numbing it, and to rebuild my life with intention has been an ongoing process. But through meditation, mindfulness, and creative expression, I’ve found tools that actually support me instead of distract me.

Looking back, the struggles were real, and at times overwhelming—but they also shaped everything I do today. They gave me depth, compassion, and purpose. And while it hasn’t been a smooth road, it’s been a meaningful one.

Thanks – so what else should our readers know about your work and what you’re currently focused on?
My work is really centered around one core idea: helping people reconnect with themselves—mentally, physically, emotionally, and creatively. Everything I do may look different on the surface, but it’s all rooted in that same intention.

I specialize in mindfulness and meditation, which has become the foundation of my professional life. Through programs like RestSMART with People’s, my speaking engagements at places like The Excel Center, and my private sessions and classes at the YMCA downtown, I guide people through practices that help them slow down, become more present, and build a healthier relationship with themselves. As a certified personal trainer, I also bring a physical component into that work, because I believe true wellness is about aligning both the mind and the body.

Alongside that, I’m a recording artist. My first full-length studio album, ROCCO PINK: BLONDED, was a reintroduction to my voice and creative identity, and my forthcoming album, I AM: ROCCO PINK, represents a deeper level of self-acceptance and expression. Music allows me to connect with people on an emotional level in a way that words alone sometimes can’t—it’s another form of healing, just through sound.

I’m also a writer. My novel Under His Control explores themes of power, identity, and vulnerability, while my column Embrace The Pink Glow in Viva Glam Magazine evolved into a book of the same name. Both are deeply rooted in authenticity and encouraging people to embrace who they are without apology. Having my work available in places like Left Bank Books is something I’m especially proud of, because it allows me to share my voice within my own community.

Most recently, my visual art series, GLARE: Shades of Fame, has become a defining part of my creative work. Through pop iconography, I explore the tension between image and identity—how we see others, how we’re seen, and what gets lost in that exchange. It’s a reflection of both culture and my personal journey of stepping into visibility after years of feeling unseen.

What I’m most proud of isn’t just any one accomplishment—it’s the fact that I’ve built a life rooted in authenticity after spending so many years disconnected from it. Everything I create now comes from a place of truth.

I think what sets me apart is that I don’t separate my work into categories—I live it. My experiences with addiction, recovery, identity, and healing aren’t things I speak about from a distance—they’re things I’ve lived through and continue to navigate. So whether I’m teaching meditation, creating music, writing, or producing art, it all comes from a very real, very human place. And I think people can feel that.

Is there any advice you’d like to share with our readers who might just be starting out?
One of the biggest things I would say to anyone starting out is: don’t wait until you feel “ready” to begin. I spent a lot of years thinking I needed to have everything figured out before I could fully step into my life—especially as a creative and as someone learning to accept who I was. The truth is, clarity comes through action, not before it.

I also wish I had understood earlier how important it is to build a relationship with yourself. For a long time, I was looking for validation outside of me—through people, success, or even escape. It wasn’t until I was introduced to meditation, through my coach David Sorin Collyer, that I began to understand the power of slowing down and actually listening to myself. That changed everything. When you learn how to be with yourself, you make better decisions, you trust your voice more, and you stop abandoning who you are to fit into spaces that were never meant for you.

Another thing I’d say is: your path doesn’t have to look like anyone else’s. For a while, I struggled with the fact that my life didn’t follow a straight line—I had setbacks, I started over more than once, and I took time to heal. But now I see that that is what gives my work depth and meaning. There’s no wasted time if you’re learning and growing from it.

And finally, be honest—with yourself first. Everything in my life began to change when I stopped running from my truth and started facing it, even when it was uncomfortable. That honesty is what led me to get sober at the Betty Ford Center, to rebuild my life, and to create from a place that is real.

You don’t have to have it all figured out. You just have to be willing to begin—and to keep choosing yourself along the way.

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